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Women prefer men desired by others

Wednesday, 17 January 2007
Agençe France-Presse
Women prefer men desired by others

A woman's assessment of the attractiveness of a man is influenced by how other women view him, according to researchers.

Credit: iStockphoto

PARIS: Just having a few women smile at a man in public is enough to make other women consider him much more desirable, according to researchers.

British psychologists, led by Benedict Jones of the University of Aberdeen in Scotland, have discovered that, when sizing up a man, a woman takes her cues from other women around him. The more females she sees smiling at a man, the likelier she is to consider the guy a good catch.

The 'copycat reflex' is the result of Darwinian pressures, according to experts on evolution. If a female faces lots of potential mates but has difficulties in choosing the best one, or if to do so would cost too much time or energy, she can help herself by taking a steer from how rival females behave.

The research team, which reports their results tomorrow in the British journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B, recruited 28 female volunteers averaging about 24 years old. The volunteers looked at photographs of four young men wearing neutral expressions and looking directly at the camera. The men were shown in pairs, and the women were asked to choose the more attractive man, and assign him a score on an eight-point scale.

The same faces were then shown individually to the volunteers, each male face flanked by a female face shown in profile. The female either looked neutrally at the man or smiled at him. The volunteers then took another look at the paired faces, and were asked to give another attractiveness rating.

Where the female faces wore neutral expressions, many of the volunteers revised sharply downward their initial grading of the man, by more than 10 per cent on average. But they sharply revised upwards their grading - finding the man more attractive by an average of at least 15 per cent - if the woman looking at him had a smile on her face.

The reverse was true for men: 28 young male volunteers took part in the same experiment, and their rating of the likeability of the male faces plummeted if the man in the picture was being smiled at by a woman. But if the woman had a neutral look, the likeability rating improved.

The findings tell us a lot about how sexual competition affects our views, the study said. 'Desired' men are more attractive to women but pose more of a threat to other males.

Among females in other species, "mate choice copying" has already been spotted among guppies, Japanese quail and zebra finches, but this is the first time the phenomenon has been confirmed among humans.

Readers' comments

charisma

but the study (as reported by the article) leaves out a whole lot...

like are cues ONLY physically visual... the smile? or is there quite likely unseen human communication... call it by whatever name you will: telepathy? empathy? energetic exchange? auric inter-play?

using made-up photos doesn't eliminate any of this because play-acted situations do portray all those levels, too.... when successfully done, it is called "superb acting"

and also... why (in real life) does one woman smile at a man, in the first place? she must see/feel something, right? that other women can read, too ... and when a man is smiled at by a woman, that often does something to him, causing him, perhaps to "radiate" all the more ... a cascade effect

my (by now ancient) personal experience was that when I was sleeping with a relatively large number of women in grad school, it was definitively true that the girls were flocking

I've often wondered why that was true....

naturally this study reveals an easy strategy for a male "on the hunt". Simply employ the best looking woman friend you know to pretend to "be interested" at one of those meat markets some previous respondant cited.

According to the principles, other woman ought to flock...

finally: does this not work in reverse, too... the woman being paid attention to by a handsome male will gather a following

CHARISMA is?

it's a good study

Photos are god *because* they are so controlled. And everyone's seen it work in real life. I always ask female friends to visit the bar with me when I'm single. I get laid way way way more often if I show up with a woman.

No it's the opposite for women. Men don't want competition. Men don't want a woman who might be pregnant. etc. A man's genes fear being cuckold, but a woman's genes don't.

Your theory held up until

Your theory held up until you made the comment about genes - women (genes and all) don't want to be cuckolded any more than a man does. The difference between the sexes with regard to being the cuckold is that women can focus on the larger issue (the relationship) beyond the sexual aspect of cheating. But men being mostly ego can't do that, instead they focus on the other man (his package, sexual skills, etc.)

Genetics have nothing to do with it, it's emotional maturity or in the case of most men - the lack of.

Chris Rock said it best...

Men look at their buddy's girlfriend and say: 'I want a girl like her.'
Women look at their friend's boyfriend and say: 'I want him!'

logic: penises do the thinking and we all know it

I really like the part of this article stressing that men and women are opposites.

When women see a man that other women want they think, "I want what they've got, and I'm hotter so I can take him from her." This is because most men think with their penis and would likely go for the more attractive girl. This is also why so many women fall in love with "players" or "assholes" who seem to be unable to get tied down.

But when a guy sees a woman with a bunch of dudes, he thinks I had better stay away - "She probably has a boyfriend. I don't want to get my ass kicked." Therefore, once again his penis is thinking for him saying - "If I get kicked in the balls for talking to her - this would be totally not worth it."

what u said about the women

what u said about the women looking at a man surrounded by ladies is correct, however, when a man see's a girl surrounded by guys, it's not so much that he's afraid of some boyfriend, but rather that she is probably one of those girls that flirt with everyone and date multiple guys at the same time. i dont need a girl like that around me.

wrong again, its even more basic

She's possibly already pregnant, thus useless. I'd like to see one simple experiment :

Attractive female researchers take guys out on simillar exciting dates, trying to make the guys fall in love, but only some guys know the girls are dating other guys. I'd bet the guys who don't know about the others fall in love.

Kelly McMahon

All the girls want my boyfriend, but my boyfriend only wants me!!!

duh

that's why he's still yur boyfriend ms. smarty pants. if nobody wanted yur boyfriend u'd move on too.

amen!!

No attractive woman will stay with a man unless she thinks others want him.